Is this a show for you or us?

October 13, 2008

I am beginning to feel that this whole wedding dinner thingy is more like a show. And the main character, is me and May.

I haven’t been to a lot of wedding or should I say hotel weddings but even the one that I remember going, there’s no couple dancing into the ballroom, no fancy sketches during a wedding or even a flying couple doing acrobat during their wedding march, so why am I expected to do different?

I am beginning to feel that what Nicholas said is true, wedding dinners are more like a show that you put up to people. That’s why he decided to have a simple wedding, minus the hassle. At least you won’t get bombardment from people asking you so what you going to do, are you going to sing? Are you going to dance? Is there going to be an emcee? Will they be any performance?

Well, wait till one gets married and you will know how I feel. As I mentioned on my last post, there are times that I lie awake wondering what else do I need to do. When I asked among a group of good friends the other day for someone to be my emcee, all I can see is merry-go-round, going round and round and round. Apart from that, 2 of my closest friend can’t make it because one is going to deliver a baby soon while the other is getting married next year in Perth and won’t be able to make it this year. That’s why no matter how well you plan an important event, there’s also something that is bigger than yours.

So is this show really a show for you or for us? I wondered………

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  • Reply SiewMin October 15, 2008 at 6:15 am

    Hey… don’t worry too much and do what you could. At the end, things will just fall into place. For those things that won’t fall into place, just let them be.
    On the real day itself, MANY many many things will just go out of control and haywire.
    Just enjoy your day and let things sailed by itself.

  • Reply pat.k October 19, 2008 at 11:00 am

    a show for us.
    Is there going to be emcee?


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